Be Real. but be careful with audience.
Be real with friends. They know you and forgive a wide range of words.
Shields have to be raised in public. Skill is required to communicate one to many. Facebook Public = Public. --- it is hard to be real and share without whining and complaining.
Communications skills are a real thing. Study them and practice them.
Results in relationships are the metric of success.
Popularity does not equal success.
Honesty requires subtlety and context.